Consider your purpose as an expression not only of your natural gifting but also of your commitment in the world. Who are you committed to be for those around you? Be in relentless pursuit of the multiple expressions of your commitment!
Fear drives our scarcity conversations. Wherever we’re operating out of fear, we’re missing resource that is present. Fear is the great restrictor. Ask yourself, in what area or relationship can I surrender to the abundance that is present?
Take a quick inventory today: what were some of the first thoughts you had this morning? Where was your focus? If you were going to label the attitude of heart you notice as either scarcity or abundance, what would you say?
Have you been keeping a record of wrongs? What if you kept a record of ‘rights’? What would you see? There’s no command against noticing all that you and others do for the world! Record on!
Notice when you feel ‘triggered’ by another person, a conversation or a situation. Ask yourself, what do I feel is being challenged about my identity? Is it true? What else could be happening?
When you go to give feedback to someone, be sure you 1) create agreement 2) be able to describe what you saw/experienced 3) their behavior (just the data, not what you made it mean) 4) the impact.